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*unju mol
writes:I have been in a relationship for more than two and half years. For the past few months I notice some changes in my boyfriend's attitude. I am really worried in this situation. I feel like he is avoiding me. I know that he loves me, but something holds him back from contacting me. He refuse to attend my calls and to reply to my messages. I am not able to accept the reasons he makes for not doing so. I don't know what is actually happening between us. I am sure that he is not in love with any one else. He loved me sincerely. We used to talk for hours and chat continuously. But the rate of calling dropped as I joined a PG course. We both graduated from the same college and of course our love started during the college time combined studies.. Now I miss him a lot and he is not trying to understand me. What could be the reason and how to solve this problem? Please help me.. Reply to this Question
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reader, lmao1989  +, writes (22 January 2013):
 Well that's a hard question for me to answer i mean only you can define your happiness and what it is that will make you happy.
If he finds it difficult to talk about his feelings perhaps suggest a counsellor someone he can talk to in private maybe that'll help him be able to express himself more to you.
A lot of men don't talk about there feelings because it's a sign of weakness to them, us women well we'll express until we sob. If you really want this to work with him and he does with you i suggest you try and bring the barrier down that he has with you if he doesn't want to know then i think it's time to call it a day.
Again only you can decide where your happiness will lie.
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reader, Kunju mol +, writes (17 January 2013):
Kunju mol is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for replying.. When I call him and says that I want to talk with him, he is ready to talk, but he never express his true feelings. When ever I ask him what's in his mind, he says nothing.. I am not able to understand his silence. I doubt whether there is some sort of ego or complex in his mind. If what i guess is right, i am afraid while thinking about my future life with him. When ego comes in between, it will take away all the happiness we have, right? Will both of us be able to live happily?
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reader, lmao1989 +, writes (16 January 2013):
well by PG do you mean a post graduate course?Because if you guys met whilst in college he may feel you're going to find someone else now on this other course you're doing that is interested in the same thing you're doing or taking part in.Maybe you can arrange to meet up with him or let him know you want to talk and have a chat with him ask him what are his true feelings because you're feeling stuck in limbo land.If he loves you surely he'll be willing to talk with you and be able to tell you his feelings about what you want to do and how he feels it'll affect him.Hope this helps.
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