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writes:I met this guy and happen to fall deeply in love with him though am not sure he knows about it but just when I was about summoning the courage to tell him how I feel....it all turned out he is a brother to my ex. I really don't know what to do and I also cannot get him off my mind, we are still very good friends though. Pls guys I really need your advice on this
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 September 2017):
 Had you not met his brother and family when you where dating? Was it serious between you and the brother? I think it is best to avoid him as this can cause a lot off upset in his family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2017): If you just found-out he's the brother of your ex; I don't think you'll get very far. If you and your ex had a bad breakup, expect him to warn his brother about you.
I think you better keep your feelings to yourself for the time being. If you happen to run into your ex while with his brother; no telling how that situation will turnout.
If I were in your shoes, I'd reign-in my feelings and go looking for love elsewhere.
I don't date siblings. I think it causes problems. It's sort of cheesy.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (16 September 2017):
 It's difficult for us to understand how you couldn't know your ex's family well enough to know that you've begun flirting and communicating with his brother. Didn't you meet your ex's family?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2017): This is not a good situation.
You are bringing hostility into the family.
You would have inlaws that dislike you and an uncle to your possible future children that has already dated you and maybe even had sex with.
This is a bad family situation.
It would be smart of you to forget your ex and to forget his brother and to think of the future by looking elsewhere for a husband.
Dont tell his brother you are interested in him or the brothers may make a shag-pact!
Ie younger bro shags you in return for a favour for his older bro such as doing the dishes or washing his sox for a year or lending him money or putting up a secret camera and making a shagging video of you both to put online.
Forget both of them and move on to someone who could respect you.
Dont even send Xmas cards to either of them!
Tell yourself you are young enough to change your life for the better.
You are not a pass-around shag ball!
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