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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hello i have been trying to find the perfect girl for a long time now and proud to say still a virgin unlike most of me mates. but as soon as i stop looking two walk in i have never been interested in the shape of o womans body just personalty the one i have been friends with for quit a bit now i met he at the local about a year ago she is funny out going and a friend to everyone we where talking one night and she said that i was genuine and told me that she really liked me since she split up with her boyfriend she has been txt me the other i meet down at the swimming pool and she has the other side that i find attractive athletic loves kids and quit shy but since my last girlfriend about a year ago cheated right in front of me with a good mate from school when she thought i was to drunk she made me lose a good friend and my confidence i cant connect with eny one what should i do they are both fantastic
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Neither of them are probably right for you. Why? Because you have posted asking which one to choose which means you are undecided and don't have an outstanding preference for one or the other. Just go with your instinct and if that isn't telling you one girl or the other just wait; you are young and there will be a girl who comes along who you know is right for you.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (25 February 2007):
 Entering into a relationship is always taking a chance of getting hurt, because you bare yourself to another person and sometimes they do things that will hurt you. It takes time to heal, but I think your heart is young and you could probably have another go at love, eh? =)
Now, about your bonnie lasses: I can't make the choice for you, but it seems to me like a girl who just came out of a relationship might need some time before the next serious relationship. Besides, she's your friend. If she were your girlfriend and things would go awry with her, you probably wouldn't be able to go back to being just friends afterwards.
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