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*liceinunderland
writes: Hey there y'all.I was wondering today, as you do, about relationships.I have two questions really:1. Why do people cheat on the people whom they claim , and possibly do, love with their whole heart.2. Is it possible to have a relationship where the partner is allowed freedom of watching porn and talking dirty to other people online???
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 April 2010):
1. There are so many possibilities ranging from, habit to needs not being met to being insecure and needing an ego boost etc...2. The porn issue is up to the individual. Porn is pretty common in relationships, though many women and some men have problems with their partner looking at porn while in a relationship. The second part about talking dirty to people online is a completely different issue. Very few people would be OK with that as it is a sexual interaction with another person online.
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (15 April 2010):
1/ Either coz they are opportunists or are not having a need met.
2/ Yes, if the other partner allows it. Porn I would say knock yourself out, but I would absolutely draw the line at dirty talk with other people. Allowing that is asking to be cheated on.
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