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Two questions about cheating.

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Question - (14 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *liceinunderland writes:

Hey there y'all.

I was wondering today, as you do, about relationships.

I have two questions really:

1. Why do people cheat on the people whom they claim , and possibly do, love with their whole heart.

2. Is it possible to have a relationship where the partner is allowed freedom of watching porn and talking dirty to other people online???

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (16 April 2010):

person12345 agony aunt1. There are so many possibilities ranging from, habit to needs not being met to being insecure and needing an ego boost etc...

2. The porn issue is up to the individual. Porn is pretty common in relationships, though many women and some men have problems with their partner looking at porn while in a relationship. The second part about talking dirty to people online is a completely different issue. Very few people would be OK with that as it is a sexual interaction with another person online.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (15 April 2010):

Not My Name agony aunt1/ Either coz they are opportunists or are not having a need met.

2/ Yes, if the other partner allows it. Porn I would say knock yourself out, but I would absolutely draw the line at dirty talk with other people. Allowing that is asking to be cheated on.

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