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writes: I am having a problem-you see, I have a friend (R) and I like him and I have liked him for a while and I am finally getting the idea that he likes me too, he is nice and does a bunch of other things that apparently show he definatley has interest in me/now for the problem- the boy who I liked in the beggining of the year has been showing some signs, but I dont know him that well (i dont have any classes with him/ i have2 classes with other boy) should I go with R or T please this delema is so frustrating Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (13 May 2006):
 My dear, you go with the guy who YOU think in your heart is the right one for you. Yes, thats a really obvious answer but here is what I mean. You need to draw up a mental list about guy R and guy T. Make a list of 5 things you like about R and five about T, it doesnt have to be 5, but either way, pick a good number, then 5 things you dont like about them both e.g I had a aimilar problem so I would say, well guy Y smokes and I dont like that, but guy Z drinks a lot, so which one of those things you dislike is worse etc, so go with the one you can tolerate, for me I can handle a bit of drinking, but smoke stench, is a turn off for me. Then what you need to do is spend some time with both of them, separately, get to know guy R then guy T, see who you have more in common with, who makes you smile more, who compliments you, who likes the things you like etc and take it from there. That, I think may be one way to help you decide which one is best. All the best xXx
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reader, way2sexy18 +, writes (13 May 2006):
Girl... i say go with your heart. But if the boy(r) is showing your all this love and has been for a while then you should go out with him
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2006): This sounds so easy. Obviously you like Mr. R more than you like Mr. T. You're simply just unsure about Mr. T because like you said, you don't know him that well. Since you know Mr. R more, seems like he may be the 'better' choice. Mind you, the thing I am grinning about is "Why must you suddenly choose?"
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So with that question out of my system, why don't you try them both out - nothing serious. Just go out as friends. I think that is a major LACKING point in MANY teenage relationships. If not teenage, at least for MANY under-developed experiences with intimate companionship.
Right. Try to be friends with them first. See where that takes you.
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