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writes: I met a guy on line, A man really as he is 60 and I am 30.My query is, should I trust him even though, He has given me his home address and I have spoken to both him and his daughter, on seperate occasions.I am a submissive, something I have only learned about myself recently.He is very much the dominant.Though he appeals to me very much and I feel I love him and he seems to know my very thoughts. we have exchanged pictures.He wants me to go to him, which will mean relocating myself and my daughter, he swears he loves me, but I guess the question I have is should i put my trust in him? And move over there to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006): Age has nothing to do with this - not wholely anyway. I believe you shouldn't rely on his words of 'love' alone. He has to show you his affection. There is a HUGE risk here. Doesn't matter if you're submissive or not. You have no idea who this person is. Online relationships are so vague until you meet and have spent time one on one with them.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (13 May 2006):
 My friend,I am not so sure about this. How can you really trust this man? How can you love him as well, you have only spoken online, correct? No I do not think you should relocate at all, as the previous person said, your daughter comes FIRST. What if you get there and he is some teenager having you on, pretending to be some other guy or how do you know that he isnt a pervert or something awful like that. My friend, the Internet as it stands is a very risky thing, you really cant just trust him like that. Good luck xXx
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (13 May 2006):
 no you are in very dangerous waters get out of that relationship now.do not trust him as he is a bully don't have anything to do with men like that unless you want to be in a violent relatioship
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2006): I would say he is 60 and your 30 what a catch and ego boost for any 60 year old. I wouldnt relocate to be with him id tell him that if he wants to see you he comes to the town you live in to take you out and see how things go. dont rush into anything see how things go and how you feel over time. Your daughter coems frist and a massive thought of relocating to be with him is bound to have a am impact on you and your daughter.
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