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Two guys -one is a pothead, the other is taken! What do I do?

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Question - (2 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *uteblonde124 writes:

UGG.. i know i already put one up but i really need help.!!. okay so i am 14 years old in high school, a freshman to be exact. and i like TWO GUYS!! the only problem is there obstacles in the way.

GUY #1-- He is 17 and is a sophmore at the same high school. we talk everynight, and he walks me to my classes. We know each others secrets, and are very close. the problem with him is that he does weed and drinks alcohal. it bugs me so much that i refuse to hang out with him outside of school! he is not perverted, but is single.

GUY #2-- He is 16 and also is a sophmore at the same high school. We talk all the time. We meet before school, and between classes. he is my best friend, and he gives me rides to my house everyday! We talk about everything and he always knows exactly what to say. We have so much in common, and he is not perverted at all!! The only problem with him is that he is taken, UGGGHHH. his girlfriend hates me so much, even though me and this guy have been best friends since like forever.!?

What should i do? They are both so nice and good people. but of course nothings perfect right. HELP ME. should i just go for the first guy since he is single, and i do like him excpet for the weed. or should i just wait around for guy 2 and his girlfriend to break up. which might take forever.?! PLEASE OH PLEASE HELP ME

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008):

Ok cute blonde, from what i know they both seem like good people but then again you can never be too sure. I can tell you feel safe with either one of them and trust me if you were to wait for your best friend it would be a waste. He's in a relationship for a reason and your young should date other guys if he wants a relationship with you he will show it when you actually are seeing somebody. Don't worry about weed smoking, theres really nothing wrong with it. If you don't like it or don't want to try to it, or even don't want to be with people who are in the process of doing it then don't be. But if you like somebody its because of for who they are. I think you should start flirting with this guy and he will get the idea. If it does work out he will ask you on several dates before making a move (or at least thats what i would do). So good luck thats all i gotta say. LoveDocta19

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