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writes:Well, there are two boys, who are both really close friends of mine, that really like me. Boy #1 is sweet, nice, kinda cute, and is nice to my family. The only problem is that he likes two other girls too, and tries to be a ladies man a lot. Then there's Boy #2. He's really fun to be around, he's really funny, really cute, and i can talk to him about anything. We have the best times together too. He can be a little bipolar sometimes though. I feel stuck. I feel #2 would seem better for me, but I just cant decide. My dad says Boy #1 is best for me, but my mom and friends say Boy #2 is best. Any advice? Thanks for your time! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): Neither - because if you can't decide these kind of things for yourself then maybe you are not ready for a more serious kind of relationship.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (15 January 2010):
 why chose either? Who says you have to chose one? Why not be just friends with both of them?
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (15 January 2010):
You need to choose what is best for you! If I were you, i'd sit your parents down and talk to them both and just let them know, it's not their decision, its yours. Boy number 1, sounds like yeah he would be a handful and he seems like he would be more likely to hurt you and/or cheat sometime in the future. But that's just my opinion. Boy number 2 does seem better and you said you can talk to him about anything, and he's fun to be around. That's the main thing, just think about who YOU have a better time with and like better, not your parents.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (15 January 2010):
 boy 1 seems like a handful, plus he has other ladies in mind..wouldn't want to be worrying about them.
i don't know about boy 2, since you say he's hot and cold/ bipolar. but i just don't like the sounds of boy 1.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (15 January 2010):
 If your stuck in between the two of them I don't recommend picking anyone till you can be there totally for that one. Boy #2 sound like he would be the better choice though cause you don't want to be with someone who won't be solely with you. It sounds like you're leaning towards #2. Forget about what your parents want and pick the one your heart says to. I'm sure you'll be happy with the choice that you make.
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