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writes:Hi everyone!uh okay, i'll get right to it. So i have this boyfriend, and i thought we loved each other. Sounds great, right? But theres a a problem...i recently started working and of course i met new friends and stuff, and im told that this one boy likes me. and thats where the problem is.. i kinda like him back. BUT I HAVE A BOYFRIEND! what should i do?! ive thought about it and i can't figure it out. I dont really want to break up with my current boyfriend, yet i also like this other bot alot. and i feel like a whore, kinda :\anyone know what my problem is? and what should i do?anything would help, and i greatly appreciate it! Reply to this Question
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reader, gmoney +, writes (18 June 2008):
I say if you think your gonna cheat just break it off because if you really loved your boyfriend you wouldnt want to get with the other guy
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Whatever you do, one guys heart will be broken. Your boyfriend would take it so much harder, so I suggest you stick with him as this is more than a crush - this other guy IS just a crush honey. It'll pass, and in time you'll be glad you stayed with your boyfriend.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 It's natural to be attracted to other people when you are in a relationship - the difference is whether you choose to act on these feelings or not.
If you love your boyfriend and want to remain faithful to him, your best bet is to avoid this other lad as much as you can. Don't be unfriendly, but don't tempt fate either.
On the other hand, if you are seriously considering this lad as a possibility, then perhaps you aren't in the right relationship.
I'd say what you need to do is sit down and have a think about the pros and cons of all possible outcomes.
Whatever you decide, I wish you the best of luck.
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