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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hello all,I have a friend , whos been married and been in relationships with other women.being gay myself i think i have a hard time knowing exactly how a str8 acts with another guy friend. as i probably see into things that a str8 wouldn`t.We`ve been friends for many months, we work together, and spend alot of time together outside of work.the negative things he says about women are probably what many str8 guys say about women and past girlfriends.but i do know when he was in his last relationship ,the things he said about her, made it clear he doesn`t really enjoy the company of a woman , as it take very little for him to be anoyed with them.and as for dating , even that he says , well 1 day every couple weeks is good enough , as he`d rather hang out with a friend , usually me.we hang out and watch movies and chat and drink.i know when your attacted to someone, u see things the way u want sometimes., but with him i get a strong vibe that he could be bi.everyday , the chat turns to jokes about sucking dick and sexual stuff like that. do str8 guys really talk about it that much? , i mean , when he `ll say something about sucking dick and "oh and then she`ll swallow" he does this ewwww remark , and i`m thinking , if it really does bother you - why do you say it so much right?he always trys to find something to come near me to talk about. and does the eye contact thing.it feels as though hes trying to feel me out when he taks about these sexual things , hes told me the other person has to be the one to initiate things in a relationship , and i know he`d be the same way about sexuality as well, like he says something like "well you need your knees to be in good shape, for what u do - hes joking , but then looks at me in a deep eye look for my reaction.well sorry this is so long , and even after reading what i wrote i don`t think i even expressed my point or question very well lolthanx
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Hmmm... I think he's feeling himself out to see if he's gay/bi. I think he might be using you as a tool, so protect your heart.
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