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Trying for a baby

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Question - (16 November 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi I have a question I really would love some advice on. My long term boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. In anyways I have been off the pill for the last year and now no longer using condoms. My boyfriend and I had sex umprotected sex on the 7th, 8th and 9th before he left to go back to work amd so have not had sex since as he is gone for a month. My question is my period is not due until this thursday or friday although i had a bad day and decided I couldnt wait any longer so i took a test. It was negative so what I really want to no is there still a chance it could become positive or am I more dan likely not pregnant this time round.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009):

I'm on the pill too. You have to wait up to a month for the medicine to get out of your system, then try to conceive. It may be too early right now to know if your pregnant, cause I did nearly the same with my fiance when I had moved in with him for a week. I took the first test once, came back negative. Then like 2 days later, took another... came back negative. So, yea. I think it may be a little too soon.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (16 November 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntIsn't it something like 6 months that is the average for a healthy couple to get pregnant.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009):

Thanks for your response think I just need to hear supportive words to help me keep positive.

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A female reader, old-spinstah United Kingdom +, writes (16 November 2009):

I think there's still a chance, love. Your pregnancy hormones may still be quite weak, especially if you have a slightly longer cycle than average. Repeat the test in a week if your period is overdue. Fingers crossed for you...

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (16 November 2009):

That was less than 2 weeks ago...a test usually won't be accurate in that short of time. It's best to wait a few days to a week after you've missed your period. Sometimes maybe the day before it will show up positive, but I wouldn't trust it too much if it was negative. Just wait and see if you get your period before taking another test.

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