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writes:im 49 years old and very nice looking. i have aq great body yet im still insecure and i hate it. i get tired of doubting my girlfriends love for me and worrying about her fooling around. i should be the guy that makes other guys insecure yet i still have anxious thoughts about her love for me. how do i quit acting so damn needy and believe in myself. i dont want to walk arouind thinking im better than everyone but i sure as hell need to free up my mind and quit doubting so much. i dont want to push her away. being insecure is not attractive and i think she would want to be with me more if i acted less needy. i want to believe she really lovesd me and dosent need anyone else. she says im her soulmate and tells me how much she loves me yet i know im needy. i need to have equal control in this relationship. i feel like im more into her than she is and i have to turn it around. i hate playing gam es but sometimes you have to do what it takes. i feel like if i acted a little less caring she would want to give me more attention. how do i turn this around and please base your answer in some type of psycology are facts about human behavior.
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reader, theunluckyguy  +, writes (3 January 2011):
its hard what to say without sounding a bit silly but you just need to take the love you have for her and turn it into something positive, the trust. it is natural in everybody to feel insecure about themselves once in there life, whether its about them selves or others. but the does come a time in which, as hard and silly as it seems, you need to say, why am i doing this? this woman obviously loves you very much and you have to believe that. try talking to her and say why your insecure. just try to let things go and show her love else she will think you pushing her away, give her space and show that you care. and in your mind you just have to let go of you own insecurity,
hoped this helped
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