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writes:Iv been with my partner for 4 months we have had some issues but got over them, recently i accused himm of cheating as he didnt seem to be intrested in me no more, he said he wouldnt do that to me he also cryed i do trust him 100% and all his mates and family have said hes not the type to cheat and has never cheated on anyone in his life the thing is iv recently found messages on his phone from his ex they have been seperated for about 7 months the other day we had an argument and by his inbox messages he has told his ex, the replies she sent him was that she misses hom and still loves him and always will and that her bed is empty without him then they started getting dirty! his sent messages dont save so i could'nt read what he said back to her. i do trust him and maybe think he just tetxted her because of the argument we had. im just worried that he might still love her and pine for her even though he has told me he loves me and wants to be with me. i just want to know if its ok for you to text your ex in that way and am i been silly with these trust issues??
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 January 2010):
If he and his ex are sending each other dirty text messages, then he's not over her. Anyone can cheat, there's not just a type. I'm not sure your're being as silly as you seem to worry you are. He's getting distant from you, and his ex is now back in the picture. Time to have a serious talk with him.
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