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Troubles in the bedroom, how do I ask him to get checked?

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Question - (13 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am currently going out with a fantastic guy. We are very much in love; however, whilst engaging in sexual intercourse he has problems ejaculating, and even if he does so, it usually takes hours, which puts him off sex. I am inquiring as to whether it is me, psychological (ie. due to the pressures that it has created making it more of an issue that it needs to be), or if anyone thinks that he should get it checked out (and if so, how to go about bringing it up.) How should I go about talking to him about it, or if necessary asking him to have it checked out, baring in mind that this is a sensitive issue, being his masculinity being brought into question.

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A male reader, MikeEa1 Australia +, writes (13 May 2011):

MikeEa1 agony auntconsidering his age and the hormones I think it might be that he's playing with his todger too much. Make hime give it a rest for a week nd see what happens. I'm sure it's not you.

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