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writes:Moderator's note: OP asked two seperate questions and they have been combined below.Question 1:i had just found out - my husband had an affair with a married woman for about 4 mounth. he told me it was over and he would never see her again. i knew who this ow was and she knew me. we went to a party and i was talking to my girl friends, i said something rude about his lover. he came over and stood beside me for abt 2 minutes, then out of no where with out any warning he slapped hard, right across my face. why would he do that to me in front of everyone? i shouldn't have talked abt her at that time i know that now. your feelings please.Question 2:my husband is a flirt or is he just fooling around? when we go out to eat he always has to have something to say to the waitress. like he's so much fun - but you know they fool right back and he loves the banter. he will make silly jokes like - i just meet her out in the parking lot (thats me). even a friend has said it - you sure were flirting with the girl in the book store. i fell he makes a fool of himself. he has said he loves to flirt. think i should tell him to knock it off?...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAgain I thank you all from the bottom of my heart. You will never know what it means to receive these responses from all of you. Thank you for taking your TIME to answer me, it means alot.
I have to say some times I think I am going crazy. I just can not get over it.
Thank you Again and Again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): i read and re read this post about him slapping you in front of others. what total disrespect. first he has an affair then physically assulats you because you said something "bad" about his *hore. please leave this pathetic excuse for a man. leave him to the trash he wants and consider yourself lucky. this *ig humiliated you and did not spare you anything. please cut him out of your life. he is a loser, not you. just be strong and make a decision to leave him. show him you can do better and show him you will survive without him. yes, the pain is so great right now, but better be alone, with your self respect than be treated like this by an adulterer.
darling, my heart goes out to you. you deserve better than this adulterer, this flirt. please LEAVE HIM. NOW. if you need more moral support, we on this site will provide it. just post again and we will be here for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI want to thank you all for your encouragement to move on. I sure need your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): Ditch your husband's sorry arse now. My ex husband once threatened to slap me, and that was enough for me to find the strength to end the marriage and become a single mother. Now I have met a beautiful man who wouldn't dream of behaving in such a manner. Leave now. Treat him like a band-aid - hurts like hell while you remove it, but then the pain goes away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am crying - thank you for your insight.God bless.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (23 August 2009):
 Woman, he put his hands on you! F whatever you said, nothing in this world should make your husband slap you EVER, not in front of your friends, not at home, not ANYWHERE IN THE MOTHER F'N WORLD! Any man who slaps you is a piece of crap that you walk away from for good instantly! If a man puts his hands on me he would be dead before he hit the ground. I don't even play around like that.
Your marriage is over! Leave this abusive, cheating, knucklehead, scrapple for brains loser behind and find a real man who treat you like you deserve to be treated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): I second babyduck. Ditch the loser pronto. He's had the affair and he physically assault you? The nerve of the loser!He's treating YOU as a child. He doesn't respect you and when you bad mouth the woman that made a mockery of your position with her lover he defends her by hitting you. You should have walloped him the biggest punch right back in his face right there.
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reader, pashanoodle  +, writes (23 August 2009):
 I agree with Baby Duck - this man is not someone you should waste your time with. The flirting with waitresses stuff - makes HIM look pathetic you're right, BUT the fact he is doing that with you right there - shows he completely lacks respect for you. He's showing you that time and again though isn't he - he slaps you!! He has affairs on you!!
This is not a nice guy.
He is going to continue to hurt you - get the hell out.
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