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How far should a boyfriend be allowed to go with the other woman in a threesome?

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Question - (23 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2009)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

If you are bisexual and want a threesome with another woman, how far would you let boyfriend (long-term boyfriend) go with her?

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2009):

starfairy agony auntYou need to set your own boundaries.

Do you even want to share your boyfriend with another woman?

When thinking about your boundaries, think about how you';ll feel when you see her having sex with him, him going down on her, her going down on him...Are you comfortable with that?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009):

This is a better question to ask yourself. It depends on your boundries because personally, niether me nor my husband would EVER allow another wo/man touching each other. You'll get a wide variety of answers here but it's important you look really, really deeply into what YOU feel comfortable with. Don't let yourself be fooled by the answeres you get here. If you get ten answers that say they would let him go all the way, you may end up trying to convince yourself that you should be the same way because you don't want to be "uptight" and you want to be "normal." But if you talk yourself into something that you're not truely ok with, you could end up with some serious jealousy, resentment, and emotionally hurt.

Do what you're comfortable with and NOTHING more. There have been far too many threesomes ending in women in regret.

Be careful.

~Sy.

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