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writes:Hi i was just wondering do men feel guilty about a relationship after it ends me and my ex split up 4 months ago after money problems and a miscarriage to which he left me 3days later lately though he has been trying to talk to me i don't want to get back together he hurt me to much just wondering if he wants to meet because he feels guilty thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2013): I'm sorry for both your losses. Read this article I wrote.
I hope it will make you feel better:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-got-dumped-and-i-know-how-.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2013): He wants to keep you feeling grief and pain for as long as he can. That keeps you off emotionally balance, and away from other men; until he finds another woman.
So what if he feels guilty, what's his guilt got to do with anything? Just because he feels like a jerk for dumping you doesn't mean he wants you back.
You had a miscarriage, you're broke, and this guy adds to your misery by dumping you during the worst time of your life.
Who gives a flying rat's ass if he feels guilty? Guilt will not make up for it. That dude has no heart, and no class.
He also knows you're weak and vulnerable; and he could get easy sex, if tried.
You're thinking he's going to apologize and beg you to take him back. Not likely. You'll just end fighting about money, and all your old pain will resurface. You'll breakup again.
You want to heal and get over him. Ignore him and let him feel guilty. That's what he deserves. It will teach him to how feel remorse and empathy.
By ignoring him and moving on, you will let him know that you are a lot stronger than he gives you credit for. You'll also be free to do exactly as you please. He did you a favor and gave you freedom. I got dumped to. It used to feel like hell; but I'm getting better by the day.
He has no character, no heart, and no money. Let have the only thing he should have.
GUILT!!!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (16 July 2013):
He could just be horny for all we know.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 July 2013):
 Only he can tell you if he feels guilty, we can only speculate. If you really want to know, ask him. But if you aren't interested in getting back together with him then I would advise you to just let it go.
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