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writes:Hi EveryoneI am totally in love with my best guy friend who i talk to on msn. He dosen't know about this, he just knows i fancy him.Thing is, he does have a girlfriend, but they seem to go through plenty of ups and downs.I've been trying to tell him how i feel for months, but when i actually do pluck up the courage, it just dosen't come out!I have recently started thinking he has the same feelings for me. Sometimes, we have the most deep discussions. He has said that he would be with me if he ever had the chance, and the other day, was asking me who i would be with if i could have anyone, and of course i said him.Do you think maybe he's trying to tell me how he feels about me? There is always subtle little hints and things he does that i really can't explain, i know i'm not going mad!I'm absolutely crazy about him, but i'm wondering if i should tell him how i feel, as i really don't want to ruin the friendship, but i think he wants me and is just waiting for me to tell him, but i don't know how!Please help, what do you think he is trying to say here, if anything?Oh and also, he is constantly trying to make me jealous, talking about other girls flirting with him, like he just wants me to tell him!I really don't know what to do, i'm head over heels for this guyAny advice would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): It sounds to me that you have already told this guy how you feel, not directly but he knows... and he loves it!
If he liked you he wouldn't be trying to make you feel jealous, or play stupid mind games with you.
He said he would be with you if he had the chance. Well, he has the chance. He can end it with his girlfriend and go out with you. It's easy.
Stop beating around the bush and ask him if he wants to go out. On the condition that he ends it with his girlfriend first, of course.
Everyone loves it when they know someone fancies them, it's an amazing confidence booster. Just be sure he isn't using you to make himself feel better. He might not even realise he's doing it.
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