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writes: I am torn between to lovers. One is very willing to have a relationship, and has children of their own. As do I. The other wants a slow relationship, and has no children, but wants some eventually. I can not have anymore without surgury. How do I make this decision? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2006): Find out which guy better suits your needs. I suggest you sit down and make a list and answer these questions. 1) What do I want out of a relationship? 2) What does Guy1 offer? 3) What does Guy2 offer? You'll see things start to fall into perspective. I don't know the details of the situations you have with these men, so I can't tell you what to do. Well, even if I did know the details I couldn't tell you what to do. I just believe that you need to take some time to think about your decisions. What does your gut tell you? If I flipped a coin in the air and heads was the first guy and tails was the second guy, which side would you really want up? Ask yourself these questions and whatever other questions you may have, and trust your gut insinct. I hope everything works out okay for you in the end. I wish you the best of luck. Stay smart!
~RJGirl
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