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26-29,
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writes:So let's call the first guy #2, and the second one #1. I'm in middle school. I recently met #1 but he flirts a lot and not in a player way. He's really sweet. He's also funny and texts me all the time asking to hang out and stuff. But #2, he went out with my best friend about three months ago. She wants me to go out with him so she gave me his phone number and told him to ask me out. He hasn't yet but he's really nice and funny like the other guyy. I have a feeling they're both gonna ask me out soon and I honestly dont know who to choose !! Help Please !! Sorry it's long:(
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reader, CJH  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 Presumably, you want the truth?
If you cant decide which one is right for you, its probably the case that neither one is. I know youre excited about this whole thing but stop and think for a few minutes.
No matter who you decide to date out of these two, you will always be wondering what the other one would have been like wont you?
This has the potential to be a messy situation. My advice is that you become friends with both of them and see what happens from there. There are no rules that say you have to have a boyfriend right now, so take your time, get to know them both just as friends.
If anything is meant to happen between you and either one of them, it will do in its own sweet time with no intervention from you or your (well meaning) friends.
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