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writes: Im still having difficulty with the situation I wrote about a few days ago. I am still intouch with my ex discussing us getting back together as we are still intouch (6 days after seeing eachother). It seems to get harder everyday as we both realise that we are only in the relationships we are in at the moment as its the easiest option. He desperately wants me back and we dont want to hurt anyone. We are still meeting next week but Im worried that by the time we see each other we still wont have made a decision!!! I wish someone could make this decision for me!!! All i keep seeing is 'signs' for us to get back together and then its gets confusing because my current boyfriend does something silly like cook dinner and then straight away im thinking why am i being so silly wanting to get back with my ex!! My boyfriend has noticed a difference in me as ive been so quiet lately but I try and block everything out (until i get a quiet moment and it all gets to me again!) I feel like im running around in circles! :-( x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006): Have you thought about why you and your ex split in the first place and why you are so drawn back to him? Was there 'unfinished business' with him or are you really meant to be together. i mean do you want to see yourself with your ex in 10yrs time..faults and all? Nobody can make this decision for you, i could tell you to forgot your ex, but if you dont decide this for yourself then you would juts ignore the advice! Think about it alot and then at the end of the day you have to follow your heart. you cant stick with your boyf as he cooked you dinner and is good to you, there needs to be more than that... Just make as sure as you can that you are drawn back to your ex because you love him, before you make a break you may regret.
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