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writes: i have a good friend who is a girl (lets say emma). i have been friends with her for about 4 years now. she went out with another good friend of mine(rod) for about a year and a half and they broke up about 4 months ago now. they both hate each other and never want to meet up, so i am torn between two groups of friends, who stay with emma or rod. i try my best to meet up with both of them but whenever i see one the other seems to turn very cold to me. and hat isn't even the problem. recently, even though he have been good friends for a while i am finding myself thinking about emma alot, and i am sure i can feel something between us, but if i am wrong that will make things very awkward, and if i'm not that will make things even more awkward because what would rod and his friends think of me? but don't they say the best relationships start as friends. i hae no idea waht to do...
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 If both Emma and Rod are both your real friends they will respect the fact that you enjoy their company.
You can see Emma on Friday and Rod on Saturdays to avoid confrontation, that way everyone gets some attention and fun. It is supposed to be fun to be with friends not nightmare.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): Explain to Emma and Rod how you have been feeling. If they are true friends to you, they will understand what position they are putting you in. They both need to understand that they can't judge you for who you hang out with, as you are an individual and a friend to both of them. They can not expect you to choose one or the other, and need to understand that you don't want to lose a friend over their own issues. If they can't understand this, perhaps you should find friends that are as loyal to you as you are to them.
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