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writes: Id like some opinions/advice. My boyfriend and i dated at college but he cheated on me a few times so we split up. Now we are 25 and we have got back together. He started a new job and had a xmas nite out with them and i found he had taken a girls number who was at least 12 years older than him. I also seen a message on his phone saying he couldn't stop laughing at her falling out of bed. I passed comment that i hoped he hadn't taken her number (since he has no need and should be doing everything to rebuild trust) -he said no.I've been checking his phone and he has been texting her every day and deleteing the messages. What should I make of this???
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 You know what to make of it!
Sorry to say but unless you want to share this guy, dump him and move on. He does not deserve you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): Well, I would say that your boyfriend is definately a friend of this woman at work, but the message about her falling out of bed sounds like they were in it together for him to be seeing her falling out of it.
If he is a cheater, get ready for a life time of this bad behavior, but if he has made no commitment to you, if he has not promised you and exclusive relationship and you are just having sex with him and assuming that means that you are in one, then I say you need to have a talk and tell him that he can't have you both and then I would walk out and keep walking.
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