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writes:I dated a friend of mine for about a month, then we decided we were better off as friends. So we moved on, and I started going out with this lovely girl who I absolutely love to pieces. But then today, me and the old girlfriend hooked up because she thought that we might still have a chance. I admit that I was curious too. But now I'm really confused as to what I should do; should I break up with my girlfriend and try again with my ex? Or should I just stay with my girlfriend and tell the ex thanks but no thanks?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your answers! I have stayed with the new girlfriend and told my ex 'Sorry but I wanna make this work with my girlfriend". So thanks to all of you for your help! :D
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Ok I boy has just done to me what u describe, went back to the old girlf and tells me loves me to pieces but he oesn't desn't want to feel like this cos he feel more obliged to be with the other one plus they sometimes have sex, it's the second time they splitted and he keeps back coming to mess my life up, it hurts and my love has disappeared so idfu do not want to loose the lovely girl please think it over the weekend and make up your mind thoug I would go for the fresh new start people should be serious and not being all the time up and down getting people back and dumping them u are behaving miserably to the nwe girl who is onl concerned about u and has behaved lovely to u
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (20 January 2007):
 If you love this lovely girl to pieces, then surely you do not need anyone else.
It is natural to feel curious about an ex, you have history and good memories together but also you have broken up for a reason.
Stay away from ex and move forward, if you do not try with new girl you may regret it.
Good luck x
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reader, macin_bacon +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Well , i think CD is rite ,
But i think its more important to follow your emotions . think is over for a few days, because emotions go up and down as moods do . but if the feelings for your ex still feel strong then go out with her , but if you are still comfused i think it would be best to stick with your girlfriend because it will mean you ex cant mean so much more to you than your current girl friend . dont worry about what other people think of you for what you choose to do .
MB
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 January 2007):
 I always think in these situations that there's a reason why your ex is your ex but after you break up your brain gets clouded so you only remember the good stuff. You say you love this new girl to bits. Therefore you owe it to both of you to try and make it work and remember why things didn't work for you and your ex last time.
CD
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