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writes:hey im in a bad situation with my relationship. ive been dating this guy for 7 months now and ive cheated on him 4 times. i promised him i would stop but i just keep on making the same mistake, and each time he forgives me. i love him very much and i honestly want to stop cheating on him. does anyone have any advice on how to make me stop? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): your only young, go out and enjoy youself , when you find the right boy you won't want to cheat. you have got plenty of time to settle dowm golive yourlife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): Uhm, how about break up with him? You're not doing either of you any favors. The fact that you don't break up with him and still cheat on him ought to be raising a few red flags in your own head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): I don't think he's enough for you. Really. I was with my boyfriend for the same amount of time, and i don't think there was a day in that relationship that i wasn't seeing someone else. I realized i was bored. I think you should end it now, because i stayed mith my boyfriend, and he ended up cheating on me. When the tables turned i was devistated. I don't want that to happen to you. See how happy you are without him for awhile :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): What you should do instead and I suggest, is that you go into a relationship where you can have sex with other guys. I believe this is called "swinging" or "open relationship". Seriously, forget about this guy you're dating. First, it would be better for his heart, and second it would benefit you more to be dating someone who also screws around with other females.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2007): Well by sending an email to Dear Cupid it shows you are bothered about it and know it's wrong. So STOP. Just like that. There's not special trick to it, you just decide that you won't cheat, and then don't put yourself in situations by flirting etc where you will end up cheating. All you need to do is look at your watch, note the time and the date, and assure yourself that from now on you will be decent and not a deceitful cheat.
.......how would you feel if it was the other way round?
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reader, cd206  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Are you sure you love him? You seem unhappy or otherwise you wouldn't keep cheating on him. We can't help you stop cheating, you need to do that for yourself. If you want to stop itll be easy but it doesn't sound much like you do.
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