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writes:Please help, i am confused. I love my boyfriend, we have been through the most tough times ever, and he has still stuck by me through everything. But, during last year at uni, i slipped into the trap of sleeping with a guy there, on numerous occasions. Sometimes i cant stop thinking about what i did and i just dont know what to do. I cant hurt my boyfriend, and yet i just am too weak to resist temptation. i might just move away and never come back. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2011): you need to grow a spine and break up with your bf. by cheating on him you're doing far worse than breaking up with him. You're not sparing his feelings, you're sparing your own. this is selfish and cowardly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2011): You've already made the mistakes.You now have to face the consequences, did you honestly think there weren't going to be any?And don't rationalise it by saying the truth would hurt your boyfriend... he's already hurt, he just doesn't know it yet.Look, the best thing you can do right now is let him go, and then break it off with this other guy and then try and sort out why you felt the need to cheat in the first place, because that one is squarely on you. Come clean to the boyfriend as well, because if you don't he'll think he did something wrong as opposed to being angry and hurt... traits that will help him move on.And don't say you are too weak to resist, that's horse crap. That is putting the blame on something you can't control. Flynn 24
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