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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for awhile now and we have discussed having sex. He's a virgin and I am not, but I'm scared cause when I lost my virginity, it was difficult and very painful. I bled heavily, and continued to bleed for at least 3 days. Every guy I have been with has usually only been able to put one finger in me, without causing me pain. When i put one of my own fingers in, it hurts really bad and it seriously feels as if there is not enough room. I really love my boyfriend, but I'm nervous to have sex, because I feel like I am too tight, and he won't be able to get it in. Should I go get checked?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo my boyfriend and I did end up having sex, but we took it slow and involved lots of foreplay. It hurt really bad when he first out it in, but ended up being fine!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): wow someone who thinks their are too tight? nah its just that your nervous from your first experience. just relax, quite a bit of women bleed their first time, books tell me this not experience, im a virgin myself. but from what i read chill out, relax maybe tell him to finger you until you orgasm, that way you would be quite relaxed and the definitely enjoy the sex. Communication is key.
Take Care, Francis J.
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