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writes:i am too shy to talk to my girlfriend i need a lot of help !!!! help we are supposed to meet up tonight xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): When you are nervous about meeting up, look on her as a friend, like you are just going to hang out with one of your mates.
Don't focus on how you feel about her while you are in her company as that will make you nervous (this can come later when you're both more relaxed alone in eachothers company)
Talk about friends, school, music, common interests. Try not to worry, im sure she really likes you alot otherwise she wouldn't have agreed to meet up with you.
Good Luck.x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 June 2011):
 Relax! Do something you enjoy, and let concersation flow naturally. Sitting in silence isn't a bad thing either! You managed to connect with her at some level since she's your girlfriend, now don't stress out, you are fully capable of hanging around her as well.
Don't be nervous, just take it as it comes. Maybe she'll start the conversation, or maybe you'll enjoy each others company too much to even want to talk. Don't worry so much!
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reader, N91 +, writes (21 June 2011):
 How did you manage to get a girlfriend that you're not comfortable speaking to? How did you get her to become interested in the first place?
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