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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I want to have sex with my husband, but I am too shy to ask, what can I do?
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reader, steph007  +, writes (15 December 2010):
Just mention it. He will probably like it.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Men actually like it when women make the first move, it makes them feel like they aren't pressured to always make the first move.
Ask him. Or don't ask him. Let him know that you want him with your actions instead of your words. Seduce him. Wear something sexy or skimpy and wait for him in the bedroom. Men are simple creatures, most of the time anything will do, including a simple, "I want you" whispered into his ear.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I understand, really I do, but the less you approach a man for sex, the more often he has to start things because his woman can't or won't, the more he starts to think she doesn't even WANT sex and he's bothering her by starting things. If he's a gentle and patient man, he's likely to back away from sex because he doesn't want to offend the woman he thinks doesn't like sex. It really does take two to make a sexually fulfilling relationship, and that includes trying to find a way to approach him about it and make HIM feel sexy and desirable and irresistible too. Men get just as insecure as women do!
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reader, SceneXaddicted +, writes (15 December 2010):
 You are from South Africa? I am unsure how they do it cultrually there, but here in the USA we just do it. Rather we dress very sexy with lingre, sometimes put on a X rated movie. Maybe sometime when you guys are together, in private, Kiss him more passionatly, try to touch his arms, his hands, softly and smile when you look into his eyes. Try to show him your desires through your touches and eyes. If he doesn't get the hint, Just have a mature adult conversation about it. After all, you two are married.
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