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writes:Ok so I am dating this guy that I have been like in love with since the 7th grade, and he are going in 10th now, we started dateing on nine 11 of last year and then in april of this year we broke up cause I was having personal issues, but in june he started dating again. Now I am like super happy and stuff all the time and I just wanna run up and kiss him everytime I see him or think about him(which is like alll the time) but I am way 2 shy. When we dated the first, even though it was for 7 months we only kissed 3 times. I mean, my shyness and his are like always in effect I guess you could say, cause he never tries anything and I am way to scared to.So ever since we started dating again all I wanna do is kiss him all the time, and I talked to my best friend one and she told me about how she had made out with my boyfriends younger step brother.I didn't care cause his younger step bro is only a year under us but he is really cool, but then it got me to thinking if she can makeout with the step bro, why can't I make out with me boyfriend? I mean he is my boyfriend so its not like I can't do it, so I asked my best friend how 2 actually do it.I mean I have seen all the movies and stuff but it didn't know how exactly. So she sent me a list of stuff and I have read it over and over. I have even looked it up on internet and I am pretty sure I have read everything out there but I am still scared 2 do it.I think I am just afraid to mess up and look bad infront of him, I have never done this before and I don't know if he has so I am scared.Please please help me
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reader, aebniala  +, writes (9 August 2011):
You created a precedent, you were scared at one time and black balled him, he will remerber,for a long time or until you break the ice, you created.(After it will forget the incedent as lack of experience)
There are no good use for shyness, unless you are an actor, otherwise, get rid of it. It slows you down, eventually you gonna have to do more than kissing. We all did it, so what the fuss. Learn to savor each golden moments, you are depriving yoursell and others of good feeling.
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