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writes: Hello,I am a 16 year old girl with too much body hair... My back and stomach. I have a boyfriend, he's amazing. He thinks I am so hot and I have the perfect body. When he goes to rub my tummy or my back, I pull my shirt down. He always asks why he can't touch my tummy or back. I'm scared he'll be super turned off... If you're a guy and put your hand up your girlfriends shirt and felt that she was hairy, would you be disgusted? This affects me so much, my confidence and happiness. I can't wear a swim suite, I love swimming too. Oh, and I have these dots all over my legs, they look really gross. So, I can't wear shorts or skirts. I feel like I can't give him what any other girl can......Please help. Guys answers would help a lot too.
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reader, insrchof  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 As a guy, I don't mind body hair on a woman. In fact, I like hair on the arms or down there. Just let your inhibitions go and let him touch you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): I don't really find body hair unattractive, and it sounds like your boyfriend doesn't either. In fact, humans have hair covering something like 90% of their bodies.
If it's making you self conscious, you could try getting it removed. Also, you could try getting a tan, which might make it less noticeable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou can't shave your stomach and back, or it'll come back thicker and I'll look like Chewbacca. I think if I wax, it'll come back worse too... Well, thanks for the answers...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): Shave then...
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Unless you're Chewbacca, I'm sure that your self-image is a bit more extreme than you really are. We all have features whose ugliness we exaggerate.
If you're just not able to break away from the self-consciousness, you might want to go get waxed. Will it hurt? YES! But you'll be smooth as a baby's bottom!
I'm thinking though, you're not as bad as you think you are. Your boyfriend I doubt will care. :P
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