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writes:I am 30 years old. I have been married for 5 years and am currently pregnant with my second child. My husband has refuse to have sex while am pregnant. My husband is one of those husbands that does'nt share his feelings or say much. He comes home plays with his psp or goes on the internet. One night i got up and caught him getting off on porn on the computer. Why does he prefer that then to have sex with me. I feel so unloved and alone. I don't know what to do, i want sex, to be held or even told i love you every now and then, is that too much to ask for? I tried coming on to him, he would tell me "you need to go sit down with your big belly" it hurts but i try to throw if off by smiling and when i go in my room or bathroom i burst out crying. Sometimes i feel like he does'nt have a heart or maybe he's just not interested in me anymore, any advice on what to do please help??
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 When you caught him getting off to porn, did you walk in on him, or did you slink off and let him finish?
You need to not be so nervous around him. Like Celia said, you need to confront him and tell him exactly what his behavior is doing to you. Bring up the porn. bring up his comments to you. DEMAND his honest reason why he's not having sex with you. Don't let him wiggle out of it. If he has the audacity to reject you and reach for the porn, he's a big boy and can explain himself to you.
Was he the father of your first child? If he is, did he have sex with you then?
You need to stand up for yourself!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 June 2010):
 I think you need to make him sit down and talk to you about how you feel and about how he feels. This is something that needs to be worked out if you're going to remain married. Communication is an extremely important aspect of any relationship.
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