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Too many jokes... is he joking or being serious?

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Question - (8 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Is this his way of trying to be funny? He does have stories to tell..

Like getting his privates stuck in a zipper! Ouch! Or riding a bike with shorts (yeah small) on a chilly day. Lol. And these are things that he brought up on our first phone conversation.. I have to admit some of the things he mentioned were like Haha.

Anyways, is this normal for a guy to do? Maybe not sound so nervous around me.. But now it's like are you joking or being serious?

I do like to joke around as well..and he knows it. I love a good laugh!

Oh, by the way the other night he said blah, blah and jokingly mentioned..'if I was attracted to you.' Made me wonder a little.. so I asked, "Are you attracted to me?" He said, "Yes, I am. See all you had to do was ask." Phew, what a relief! Lol.

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A male reader, Sisyphus Australia +, writes (8 January 2009):

Sisyphus agony auntHeya

Sounds to me like your commedian is using humour in more than one way: Firstly it seems that he wants to impress you.. How many times have you seen people sigh that they want a man with a Good Sense of Humour (GOSH)? Secondly, it sounds like he is using it as a protective mechanism, his humour allows him to approach subjects without him hurting his pride, if it fails he can laugh it off as a joke and spare himself.

Either way, good luck with penis msn!

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A female reader, elisa_lee United States +, writes (8 January 2009):

elisa_lee agony auntHey it sounds like this guy told too many funny stories *that involved his penis* in your first conversation. I mean, it's obvious he has a dick, and yeah dicks are funny but... I find it a bit rude. Depends on who you are though I guess.

I am personally too "humorous." It is a sign I like someone but also it isn't, I just do it all the time... not even sure if it's to make people laugh or like me. Mostly just because often almost everything strikes me as really, really funny. and i have to share. see if it gets annoying, or maybe he will become more comfortable with you and get more serious. or run out of funny stories about his dick so you'll have to provide him with more (funny sex is teh best!).

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