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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I had this best girl friend she was so close to me she knew me better than anyone. As time went by I fell for her and I told her, I described every single little feeling I had for her, she said she only wanted my friendship, she likes me back but she doesn't get with me because she is friends with my ex and that's the reason as of why we're not together. I hear she might like another guy but I don't believe it. I can't help it, I love her so much I've tried everything to get over her, distracting myself, going out to places, letting it out, talking to my friends, taking advice. Not one thing has worked, some days I feel like I'm almost over it then I fall back down I never ever felt this way with any other girl she's stuck on me so bad. I can't keep like this, I cry for her almost every night, I see her at times but I feel her so far away, it's affecting me in every way too and this eats me inside... it's like a glass splinter stuck in my heart, I don't know what else to do... any suggestions?
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reader, sandra78 +, writes (8 January 2009):
I know that friends don't date friends ex's. It is an unwritten law amongst women. It only creates issues between friends. You should avoid seeing her for awhile. That should make it easier. Also, you should accept the fact that the frienship u have with her will never be more. If u keep telling urself that there's hope, no matter how small, you will never get over her. If you value her friendship, you should back off, before it becomes uncomfortable, and the friendship fades. Good luck
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