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writes: I have loads of problems with relationships at the moment. I broke up with my boyf about a month ago and then went out with this other lad who is really sweet. That didn't work out so we broke up but about a week ago this other lad at my school asked me out. I said yes to see how it goes. Now I'm hurting my other 2 exs but cant not hurt anyone. Plus to make my problems even more complicated my two supposedly bestf told my boyfs mate that i fancy another lad. Which I dont. So now he is calling me and is probably going to get my boyf to dump me. I feel like everything is going wrong and nothing in my life can be simple. Please help! What should I do?
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (23 November 2006):
 Yep, you've had too many boyfriends lately, but I'm sure there are lots more waiting to take you out, but you can't help it if you're popular - right?
Wrong.
By being the lovable, friendly and (dare I say it) sexy you, you are spurring the guys on.
You are too young to be caught in these love triangles. It's probably affecting your grades, friendships and family life.
Take some time to yourself to put things in perspective and to enjoy the short time that you have left at school - then when you know that you can be in a relationship with a boy that will help you to grow into the wonderful woman that you need to be, then and only then go for it. :-)
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (22 November 2006):
 Decide who you want to be with. When you decide end things with the others guys. Set that guy straight if he thinks you like him. Tell him you don't like him in that way and he was misinformed.
In the future end something before you start something else you'll save yourself the hassle you're going through now. And you'll hurt a lot less people in the process. Think things through before you do them.
Good luck with it all and don't get yourself into this situation again.
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