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writes: I met this guy online and we started getting to know each other and he would call about every other day.he is in college and he works so I know he is a busy man.one day he asked me why i didn't call him and it was because i didn't have the right number.so whe i did start calling him i think i called to much and pushed him away so i want to know how i can repair this damage.because he is a nice guy and i would like to continue to get to know him and see if it could go anywhere.that is if i have not ruined everything. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): It's understandable to feel the way you are feeling.. Lets admit it, it is very hard to resist the temptation of calling someone we like as often as possible.. I once found myself in such a dilema. I felt so guilty but decided to tactfully confront my fear. We talked about. First of all, slow down on the calls, dont stop completely. Be very polite & tactful... & ask him how he feels about your calls.I'm sure he's mature enough understand your fears.
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reader, guylostinlove +, writes (19 December 2006):
Let things cool down a bit then resume calling him but at a moderation. Perhaps after some time has passed, he'll have some thoughts about it all and realized what's going on.
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