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writes:I have a best friend and we've been "twins" for almost all the time we've known each other because we have so much in common. His girlfriend broke up with him a couple of days ago and I was talking to him about it. He was telling me about how his heart was broken and how he loved her but then he said that the only other girl he really liked would never be with him and I talked to him about that and then he told me it was me. That he liked me.I really did not see that coming, like the way we talked and stuff, I never really thought he liked me. I like him though, a lot. So I was shocked and asked him since when and such. It seemed weird to me that he would tell me he liked me since he was so heartbroken a couple of minutes ago. But we do have a lot in common, including out past and stuff, we're both very strong people and know how to deal with things that can affect us well. So I didn't think too much about it and told him I liked him too, because I do. We've kept talking, since the good morning that wakes me up and at night I tell him goodnight. 3 days later, yesterday, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him "You know I like you...a LOT. But I need to go slower, it just doesn't feel right going so fast" he said "Whatever makes you happy, I can wait". But I still keep thinking that it's all SO fast.Later last night he told me he "loved me". I don't think someone can fall in love that fast, right? I didn't want to say 'i love you too' because that's saying something in vain, not true. And words like that have to be said with actual meaning, but I did say 'i love you too'...I'm not in love with him. I like him a lot and I've never felt like this, so close to anyone, but I'm not in love with him. So I told him, once again he said 'ok' and we kept on conversing and it was all normal.But for some odd reason I feel weird. Not good weird like I felt a couple of days ago, I felt good, I had butterflies in my stomach, but I felt good. But now I just feel tired and not good, and when I talk to him it's just not the same feeling...I'm confused. What's going on?
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 How long was he with his last girlfriend?
Maybe you could just try talking to him about it....
Tell him saying I love you right now is too fast and that you "like him" but you need to take it slower. You said you never thought about him like that but it could be he has been waiting forever to tell you that. Tell him you didn't know how you felt him more of a friend until he told you so.
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