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Told her I was older than I am. Now she wants to meet my Mum! What to tell her?

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Question - (13 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 16 and I went on vacation not too long ago and I met this girl who is 19. I'm worried about her asking to meet my family beacause I LIED and told here I was 18. We've only been together for 3 weeks but when I go back to where she lives she wants to meet my Mom. What should I do(I can't tell her my age because i love her and I don't want her to tell me we should wait). Pleassse help me!

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A male reader, BigPenis Canada +, writes (16 June 2008):

BigPenis agony auntLOL...as it was said before...never lie to a girl...if she likes you she will understand man. Shes only older than you by 2-3 years who cares.

Or you can either tell your mom to say that your 18 aahah..but I doubt it will work.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

tell her the truth hopefully she will understand

its 3 weeks into a relationship you have nothing to lose

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A male reader, B-NaneR Canada +, writes (14 June 2008):

B-NaneR agony auntLet this be a lesson to you man haha never lie to a woman, it creates big balls of shit in a relationship. Thats why I dont do it haha shit stinks and it is no fun. Well dude, there is only one thing that you can do... tell the truth! If you really love her and you think she feels the same, then there should be no problem. Just explain to her why you did it, seems to me that you paniced and told her an age close to hers but yet a bit close to yours also, you did so because you were afraid that she wouldnt go for you if you told her your real age? and i right or am i wrong. Besides, its not a big age difference anyways.

take'r easy, hope eveything works out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

simply tell her the truth.. love is everything.. she will understand you.. good luck

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