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Is it possible for a partner to carry on 'pleasuring' after orgasm with it continuing to be enjoyable and then able to create another orgasm?

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Question - (13 June 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

...When i think i am reaching then achieving orgasm my heartbeat and breathing becomes faster, the sensitivity increases and there is uncontrollable, like, twitching of my legs and well the pelvic area, this seems to build till i get a tingley pins and needles like feeling that feels amazing although only lasting seconds (what i hear orgasms to usually last for), but what i am curious about is that aparantly there is an extremely sensitive feeling afterwards??

I have never got this sensitive feeling after, only a flushed and slightly tired/relaxed feeling, sometimes still slight twitching of my legs or pelvic area, but my partner could still carry on as if to reach another orgasm.. So am i actually reaching orgasm in the first place?

I would say i have been, but when my boyfriend confronted me as to help him on what feels good to me because he thinks i have not 'climaxed' and reached orgasm with him, i told him i have, but he wasnt so sure that i think i have. He told me about his ex-gf, that when she climaxed she would have to tell him to stop as it would become so sensitive or even painful to carry on. I have also read from online stuff that there is this sensitive feeling after. As i do not get this feeling after do u think am i actually having orgasms? Is it possible for a partner to carry on 'pleasuring' after orgasm with it continuing to be enjoyable and then able to create another orgasm?

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (14 June 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntIt depends on the woman, some can just keep going and going while others become so sensitive that any touching actually hurts and yet others find that once is enough thank your very much.

You should know best wether you got an orgasm or not. They are kinda hard to miss.

If you are not sure, you haven't had one. The most universal sign apart from the feeling is the contraction of your muscles . Since you don't mention that you might stop to soon and just have the pre-gasm.

If you are not to senstive to continue, then continue, if you didn't have a full orgasm you might well get one and if you had a full orgasm, well another wouldn't hurt would it?

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (14 June 2008):

I think you got there. Very few woman can have multiple oragasms. I have had 8 in one session. I can get a little sore sometimes but other times when it is hot i just want more and more. I have climaxed by my guys fingers three times then came twice during the actual sex. Very few woman are like this so if you are count it as a blessing and one day see how many you can get in one session!

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (14 June 2008):

I think you got there. Very few woman can have multiple oragasms. I have had 8 in one session. I can get a little sore sometimes but other times when it is hot i just want more and more. I have climaxed by my guys fingers three times then came twice during the actual sex. Very few woman are like this so if you are count it as a blessing and one day see how many you can get in one session!

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A female reader, LaydeeOfSorrows Australia +, writes (14 June 2008):

LaydeeOfSorrows agony auntAfter i orgasm i have to wait about 5 minutes to keep going, because im sensitive, and cant feel pleasure, straight after.

I think you did orgasm, you've just been blessed with being able to have multiple orgasms.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

i myself get that sensitive feeling after a triple orgasm,no way could my man ever touch me until atleast 15min has passed by

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A female reader, whateveryousay United States +, writes (13 June 2008):

whateveryousay agony aunthmm i think u might not have got there in the 1st place

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