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writes:I have been dating this guy now for about 3 weeks, and we had sex for the first time last night. We started off with 4 play and well I have had 2 kids, so my " area" is not the most perfect. He was fingering me and asked me if it hurt, I in return said no of course not. Then he replied is that your uterus. Well I knew what he was talking about. My cervix is kinda low, if I stick my fingers inside me I can feel it with in almost 4 inch's. He didnt make a big deal outta it, we proceed on with our night. I am worried that he might think something. I wanted to ask a guys what they would think if that happen to them. Also, I am not big on bragging but I love goin down on a guy and I also swallow. Well he has never once had a girl do that that enjoyed it, I told him I wanted to do it that I liked it. He let me but never " got off ". I know that not all guys can, but he didn't get off from the sex either. I told him I felt it was my fault. He told me I was great that it was his fault, bc he had taken a Valium a few hours earlier and drank a beer.. Should I believe him? Or should I think it's me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all replies. When he asked me that, I didn't think much of it because he is a guy. Most guys dont know to much about the female body. But sense all you have the same rely I think it's something I need to consider. He is 25, I am 21.. He has not been with to many girls. He had a serious girl for 5 years then after her, he had another girl for 5 months. Then he was single for 2 years, then I came around. He has had 7 sexual partners he admited about. The reason he takes those, is because it calms him down. I told him I dont want to be around him when he is UTI ever, and he has done a good job respecting me. He had that beer because he had a very stressful day at work and got one on his way home, but he took the Valium a few hrs before. He dosen't ever mix things like that normally..
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Oh young lady IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!I have to agree with Gina here...what kind of a guy asks that? Im 44 and been sexually active well over 30 years and I think he asked you one of the most insane things anyone could ask especially if it was your first time together. Regardless if your cervix is lox...So what???I wonder how old this guy is. I think he has some repressed issuesYou didnt do a damn thing wrong.
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