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writes:okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating 2 months and I had promised myself I would never give a blow job but only for one reason... I don't know how and it kills me because I get all the pleasure and he doesn't.Does anybody have any tips on how to give one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): DoubleM totally gave you some great advice here. But I've gotta stress one thing, whatever you're doing to him, make sure you get continuous stroking up and down, in an actual pattern. Make your grip firm, but not too firm. This should make it feel more like it is in your vagina, but remember, lots of spit or lubricant! It sounds a bit disgusting but the pleasure is even more intense if he is wetter. Don't forget the head of his penis (the very top of it) because this is amazingly sensitive, and if done carefully and correctly, you can give him some great orgasms. Also, play with his balls - when he's about to cum, pull them slightly away from his body (SLIGHTLY!) and apparently this makes him able to feel the sensation of the cum actually rising inside him. Keep checking for facial expressions and sounds that show he enjoys it.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 February 2008):
 My hope is that you are at least 17 years old and legal to have sex in your state. Since you say that you "get all the pleasure," I presume that he provides oral satisfaction for you and that you wish to return in kind.
Well, after you are nicely satisfied, you may move below and simply take his member between your lips for a few sucking strokes, then use your hands to stroke several times while kissing and licking the tip and head. Move further below and add a few licks from bottom to tip, and even further south to lick his scrotum for awhile. Gently taking his testicles into your mouth for sucking is also very pleasurable to many men. Constantly employ these various motions for several minutes. I need to write a book about this . . .
People call this a "blowjob" but blowing has nothing to do with it. It is all about a sucking action, or for the most part, simple insertion in and out into your mouth much like vaginal intercourse. At least a slight sucking is advised. The feeling for the man is the warmth, moisture and sucking activity on the penis, which is extremely intense if the woman is eager and talented.
Frequent licking upon the head of the penis, particularly just underneath the head is very stimulating to most men, combined with deeper thrusts into the mouth on occasion. Use your hand(s) to add stimulation to his shaft much of the time. Some women can allow very deep penetration into the throat if they can control the gagging reflex, which may be difficult. Sometimes, at least allow fairly deep penetration along with occasional strong sucking on just the tip, and long licks up and down the shaft.
A constant variety of these actions are extremely stimulating for most any male recipient. Enough of this activity will usually lead to an ejaculation from the man, and at that point, you have at least four options - move away and employ hand(s) to complete, permit a facial or breast coverage, allow oral release into the mouth and spit - or ingest. Stopping at the point of ejaculation is often an extreme turn-off for him. The decision is yours to make - it will likely be very salty or even unpleasant tasting depending on the man's diet. A healthy diet heavy in fruit, honey and sugar may render the taste of sperm much more pleasant, and some ladies greatly enjoy it.
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