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*hearthim123
writes:I'm going out with my first boyfriend, and I'm really shy about him. We've only hugged once and we've been going out for a week. I'm scared to go up to him in the halls and say hey, so I keep waiting for him to do the walking over to me but he kind of ignores me. I know that this is bad and that we can't go on like this but I definitly don't want to break up with him. What should i do?
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reader, tessa754 +, writes (30 October 2009):
I was the same way three months ago when I got my first Boyfriend. Go ahead say hey and all that the shyness will go away trust me and now we are hugging holding hands and all that. Go ahead say hey and you guys will get less shyer and all that.
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reader, My_bad36  +, writes (31 May 2009):
Seriously the same thing happened to me, except worse (he asked me out on msn and he didn't do anything), i tried to make him realise that he should talk to me at least but all he did was ingnore me, and i didn't do anything waiting for him to make the move, in the end he dumped me!!! Talk to him, if that doesnt work dump him!!! Your better then that seriously!!! and he will be totally jelous if u hook up with someone else! And remember learn lessons from the past!Hope this helps!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): hey im 13 with my first boyfriend too nd i was rely shy too dont worry! just take it slow with him, but if you went to get closer to him then you need to no more about him nd if you want a hug just go up to him and ask for one. dont worry about what other ppl think becoz you shud b proud that he picked you out of all the girls in the school nd if you do get embarassed then maybe spend some time out of school with him. go to the cinema, town or even go to his house. if he allows you to his house then he rely loves you becoz it usually boosts ur relationship coz he doesnt mind you meetin his family. also he wnt b embarassed by eni baby piccys of him.try it coz it totally worked for me !
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008): i did this with my first boyfriend, i was just really shy too
you need to not think of it as him having to take the lead, because if he sees you not coming up to him he will think you dont like him
try and ring him up to meet up and tell him your shy, i left mine to late and ended up getting dumped :(
i hope im a help
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reader, Kawika +, writes (28 February 2008):
 I dont think you should do anything. Let him take the lead. That is what boys and men are supposed to do. He may be shy too, so it may take some time. Just because he ignores you does not necessarily mean he does not like you. I'll bet that when he sees YOU his heart is beating so fast that he's afraid that if you say "Hey" he might literally faint in front of you. That's why he is ignoring you. A simple smile from a distance can say many things. I hope this helps. Good luck....
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