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writes:Dear Agony Aunts,I'm an average teen, in an average relationship. This new boyfriend I've been dating for about a month now seems totally into me, and I'm totally into him!!....there is just one problem...I'm scared that when the moment comes to have th first make out session, I'm going to end up making him drownd in a washing machine. You see, I've NEVER made out with someone before, and I need some tips or guidelines!! what should I do to better prepare myself?!?!(besides practicing on the mirror =P )thanks in advance ;] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2011): I'm having the same problem I'm soo nervous to make out with my bf but vie heard it comes naturally I know is an old question but hope everything worked out okay (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): I am in the same situation. I have been dating a guy for about two and a half months now and i have kissed him but never made out! i didnt even think about it, i wasnt worried cause i figured we r still young and i thought both of us thought that. until one day a bunch of his friends started asking me if i wanted to make out with him. and he said he wanted to if i did. i dont know what to do! its been a week and i still havent answered weather i will make out or not! I'm scared he will think im a bad kisser and tell his friends or something. the worst thing is i dont know if he has made out with a girl before so i dont know if he has excperience... i need some advice here i mean i kinda want to kiss him but im afraid....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): I am in the same situation. I have been dating a guy for about two and a half months now and i have kissed him but never made out! i didnt even think about it, i wasnt worried cause i figured we r still young and i thought both of us thought that. until one day a bunch of his friends started asking me if i wanted to make out with him. and he said he wanted to if i did. i dont know what to do! its been a week and i still havent answered weather i will make out or not! I'm scared he will think im a bad kisser and tell his friends or something. the worst thing is i dont know if he has made out with a girl before so i dont know if he has excperience... i need some advice here i mean i kinda want to kiss him but im afraid....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): I am wondering the same thing. So far my girlfriend and i have been dating for 5 weeks and we want to take it a bit farther. i have been searching tips for making out and so far this site has been the best. I would say just be confident, dont worry, and relax cuz otherwise you'll be on edge and nervous when making out and the guy wont like it
Hope that i slightly helped and i wish all the best for you 2 :]
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reader, Tomangel  +, writes (17 February 2010):
How do you swallow your saliva while kissing? Wouldn't you partner feel it and think that it is weird?
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reader, JazzedUp +, writes (1 August 2009):
 Making out is an amazing thing. I was shy when I first got with the girl I'm with now, but I'm really confident now and I owe it kissing. My first kiss wasn't like in a movie, surrounded by rolling plains, and singing doves. It was in a Zaxby's parking lot in front of her older brother and sister, but we made it so special I'll never forget it.
Here are my tips for you:
1. Breath. No matter how high people put gum up to be when it comes to kissing, it's just not all that. It gives your mouth a stale taste, and makes it more moist, which can be a definite NO. Instead, if you must use gum, chew it just before you think you're going to makeout/kiss. This way your breath will be fresh and you won't drool.
2. Breathe. Don't breathe in their mouth, breathe through your nose. If you must stop to breathe, smile at them, or laugh, and then continue.
3.The first kiss. Make out sessions have to begin somewhere, and it just takes oen kiss to start. Start by kissing their cheek. Sometimes a kiss on the nose is good too. Slowly kiss your way to their lips, and plant one. Make it last, but not forever. After a few seconds, you can release and move on.
4. Making out. It's pretty simple when you break it down.Just keep kissing. Not fast though, most people prefer it slow and enjoyable. Remember, making out is a way of showing the other person how you feel, if you go through it really fast they may end up not feeling too good. Just don't freak out about doing it wrong...think of it this way...everytime they kiss you back...it just means your doing it right. Don't go in big on the tongue the first time, you can slowly come into that later. Right now just focus on sharing your emotions with one another. Keep the soft, slow kisses going. Change lips every now and then to keep them on their toes, if you've been kissing the botom lip for awhile, move to the top, or tilt your head to your lips touch differently.
5. The Secret Word. I've read that there is a secret word. You can say while making out that is mimics the ideal movement of your lips. The word is...(drum roll please)....olive...mouthing,(not verbally saying) the word olive makes your lips move in just the right way that you lips and tongue move perfectly for kissing and making out. Just remember, don't say olive out loud! just silently mouth the word while you kiss. I've tried it and I promise you it does work...
Well this is my tips to kissing nad making out of teh first time...anything else just email me [email address blocked]
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): to make out you have to get into a good place like watching a movie take it slow
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Well making out is a beautiful thing tht comes naturaly!
i kno ur worried about messing up but wen the time comes ul see its actually very easy to make out! (make sure u dont move into the kiss to fast!!! it makes the situation akward! trust me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): Well I would actually like to know the same thing. I really want to make out with my girlfriend but I don't know how.
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reader, PSUVETGIRL +, writes (16 October 2008):
im in the same boat looking all over the internet how to make out and i finally foun something this girl said"when you start making out just preterned like your counting the A,B,C'S, with your tounge and it really works!!!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): hey well im a guy and honestly it just comes naturally. dont freak out if u dont do greaaaaaaat the first time ur special pearson will uinderstand and if they love you they wont mind =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): when you first makeout it is will diffrent but try the best you can and if you are worried in spitting in his mouth always swallow even if it isn't your spit, good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): hey, dont worry about it. if you think the time is right,...then go 4 it! im an average teen also! my boyfriend thinks its ready 4 us 2 make out also and i also want 2, but i think we should just wait a little longer!im totally into him, but i think we should just w8. same thing goes 4 u! =D if u think the time is right, go ahead and make the move ^.^
love, melissa
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): well just relax if you realy like this person making out should be fun,easy,and not stressful
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): i have the same problem right now. i have been looking for tips on the internet...just for guidelines, you know? but the thing is, i want my first make out to be special, and not something that other people on the internet have done. so just stay true to what you feel, and when that special time comes, just be comfortable and confident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): the best prep you can do is to not think about it or worry about it to be honest.
cos the less you worry about it the more you actually enjoy it when it happens.
i was worried about my first time but i kinda found it was human nature and i knew exactly what to do without thinking about it
just follow your instincts and get really into it
:) good luck hope yuou have fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Try msn.com, it has a bunch oh hints in the dating section.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Hi there
I take my hat off to you for waiting until now to "make out"
This way, it should be more special.
Kissing is different for everybody. Everybody prefers a different style. Some guys like a lot of tongue, some like less, but here are the basics.
a) get closer to him, but slowly, don't bump into his face. Good idea to tilt your head slightly while you close your eyes
b) part your lips slowly, don't wait for him with an open mouth - breathe with your nose.
c) mirror what he does. If he kisses you softly, then kiss back softly
c) not too much tongue (as in, you don't have to stick your tongue out), just explore the front of his tongue with yours remembering to mirror what he does.
Trust your instinct. I remember my first kiss, but cannot remember if it was good or bad?
Have some confidence. You've seen it in the movies a thousand time. When the time to make out comes, you'll be sure to know what to do.
Good luck
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