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*ofialoren
writes:Three questions about my Swedish exchange student boyfriend!Are all Swedish girls really good looking? I'm seeing a Swedish exchange student and am rather insecure.He goes back to his country soon and I am really insecure because from what you hear they are all goddesses. But are they? Or just their Tv people?He likes me a lot and I am rather exotic looking but not Swedish looking so I am a bit nervous.Oh and I am South European, dark haired, dark eyed, tanned look.Maybe a silly question, but I am so confused.My super shy boyfriend, he is very shy, goes red when nervous around me, is exceedindly fond of me. i am not shy but its hard for me to proclaim my love for him in front of him. So through texts we have said we like each other, fallen for each other. He's gorgeous, athletic, I've met his family, he's a perfect gentlemen but we havent kissed or gone physical except hand holding that was when we had drunk a bit.He is attracted to me. So am I.Should I just make a move, am scared it'll look slutty, or he'll move back. We are both in our early twenties. He's adorable and from north europe, his country has shy men but he's lovely, lovely lovely.What do I do?I really really like this exchange student. He likes me as well. We have only a couple of weeks left :(What do I do? I dont think a LDR is possible, we live too far away. I've never felt this way about any one before. Nor has he. We've discussed our feelings and talk about future plans but an LDR is going to be hard.How do I make myself feel better. All I can do these days is cry, think about him, and cry more. :( :(He's adorable, his family like me. My family likes him. I'll go mad if I dont meet him everyday like we do.Has anyone else had a similar experience? How did you get over them?
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reader, sofialoren +, writes (16 May 2010):
sofialoren is verified as being by the original poster of the question Oh my god. Thank you so much. We kissed everything and doesn't want this to end. He's ready for a LDR. It will be hard but yay!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 I have been to Sweden and not all the girls there look like goddesses. The general level of attractiveness is rather high but you see around also plenty of average or plain girls. I am a dark eyed,dark haired Italian and I got quite some attention there- I think Swedish guys like what is exotic and unusual for them.
what can you do now ?- Take the initiative,if he is really so shy. caress his hand, or rest your head on his shoulder, or maybe go ahead and kiss him. What have you got to loose anyway ? He is leaving in few days and if he does not kiss you back ( but he will ) so be it- farewell.
LDR- yes LDR are difficult,but not impossible. When there is a will there is a way. Internet,phone,you can visit each other during holidays..you'll have to talk about that.
How do you get over him and stop cryng- it's too early to despair, maybe he wants to have a LDR with you.
Otherwise-just write us back,and we'll see :)
Good luck.
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