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writes:ok i happy to found this site i think it help us to finde answers in all things in our lifemy english not good but i try do my best :)i was raped by neighbor when I was 14 years and he 25 years i thinkhe play with me like my brother i think he just play but in real he try touch my body that i think he joke with me so I could not charge to get rid of his hand by time he forced me to obey him in order to facilitate rape, and I agree that the explanation must be that I like, and Enjoy with luggage and Mardti threatened in the event that he would tell everyone that I am requested to do so and will not have mercy on our society do not believe me, which forced me to live up to and implementation of requests Raped me and continued for several years between the period and even threatened with other images taken by me and was with me all the exercise of the anus without any protective sperm was always staying within the anus and enjoy fingers sperm inside to dryMoved since the neighbor did not know where he went *I'm now at the age of marriage is it a danger with what I do not feel any symptoms, everything is normal ??*i feel scared to know if my husband can now if i was raped becouse i can not tell him ??*finally I have strange feel in my anal same it need to make sex in there things moving and made me feel anal within euphoria and most put things in to relax Is this normal ??i am sorry if there any word u can't understand i hope u feel what i feel thanks alot
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you mr.nitram thanks to all i now looking to meet a women doctor and i come again to tell you what happen see you soon
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 There is no hymen in the rectum (anus). You have to consult a female doctor and have it checked. A female doctor who specializes in sexually transmitted diseases.
I do not want to pre-empt the findings but if you are feeling some discomfort like rectal pain, discharge or bleeding - any of those, you might have contracted chlamydial infection from the rapist.
Men or women who have receptive anal intercourse may acquire chlamydial infection in the rectum, which can cause rectal pain, discharge, or bleeding.
Chlamydia can be easily treated and cured with antibiotics. A single dose of azithromycin or a week of doxycycline (twice daily) are the most commonly used treatments.
You have to see a female STD doctor, for now. A physical examination is needed to diagnose your problem. Even if I am a doctor and I could not diagnose without seeing physically the patient.
Take care and may Allah protect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI expect that the hymen is intact, but is there a hymen in anus or can husband know if i have analsex befor .
and anus no have a cut or tear i think it normal and helthy
But often feel Balshahup within the anus like need some thing to put in with out control and don't know if that feel normal
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reader, MutantKitten  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 I think you should see a female doctor, who won't tell your father or your husband about what happened to you.
You might have a cut or tear in your anus that could lead to infection. Tell the doctor everything that happened to you, to make sure that you are healthy.
If your neighbour never put his finger or penis or another object in your vagina, your hymen should still be unbroken and your husband will never notice.
If he broke your hymen, there is a good chance your husband still might not notice.
If he broke your hymen there is also a little surgery to repair the hymen. Sometimes it is called an embroidery. Ask your doctor if you are very worried about your husband finding out.
If you can find a women's rights' lawyer, maybe you can talk to her, too.
All the best.
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reader, NITRAM BLUE +, writes (18 January 2009):
I bet your country have different set of legal ramifications about rape. It differs from one country to the next.
Though definitions vary, rape is defined in most jurisdictions as sexual intercourse, or other forms of sexual penetration, by one person ("the accused" or "the perpetrator") with or against another person ("the victim") without the consent of the victim.
The term sexual assault is closely related to rape. Some jurisdictions define "rape" to cover only acts involving penile penetration of the vagina, treating all other types of non-consensual sexual activity as sexual assault. Other jurisdictions define all non-consensual sexual activity to be rape. But the terminology varies, with some places using other terms. For example, Michigan, United States uses the term "criminal sexual conduct". In some jurisdictions, rape is defined in terms of sexual penetration of the victim, which may include penetration with objects, rather than body parts.Some jurisdictions also consider rape to include the use of sexual organs of one or both of the parties, such as oral copulation and masturbation.
In recent years, women have been convicted of raping or sexually assaulting men; for example, by the use of an object or when the man is below the statutory age of consent. Also, in recent years women have also been convicted of rape or sexual assault by procuring a man to rape another woman, and by being an accomplice to a rape.
In Scotland, rape is a gender-specific crime, meaning it can only be committed by males upon females. Oral, anal and male rape do not constitute rape, nor is digital penetration sufficient.
In Brazil, the definition of rape is even more restrictive. It is defined as non-consensual vaginal sex. Therefore, unlike most of Europe and the Americas, male rape, anal rape, and oral rape are not considered to be rape. Instead, such an act is called a "violent attempt against someone's modesty" ("Atentado violento ao pudor"). The penalty, however, is the same.
Since you want to be silent (for now) about the whole thing, I suggest you borrow a law book - Penal Code of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia for you to find if rape includes "anal sex"
If your assailant did not penetrate and broken your "hymen" then you are still a virgin and your future husband will not notice the difference. If the rectum hurts, then you should consult a physician to have it healed. The problem with anal penetration is it is difficult to heal if the rectum is injured since it is prone to infection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwoow i am very intrest to read all of your answer and my thanks for evry one write to me i want to tell you here Many of the girls here have the problems of rape and would prefer to remain silent and follow-up of life there no broblem in relegion but in minde of a lot man in this country yhey onlay thinking in women just for have sex like animal .
and if girls go to police or lawyer that good but not good what happen after no one looking to you and become a lone and no way to marrid or have a family becouse now every one thinking you are a bad girl .
and we need to live peace and our secret is secret all life
in my i want to now if i marrid can my husband to know that I was raped, or sex has previously in anal ?
and in medecal or feeling What is the thing that causes me a sense of Balshahup in the anus and this normal fell this in anuse ???
I feel very ashamed and fear of medical review to tell my father i looking now to see a female doctor meet in special review .
thanks again for all your help
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reader, NITRAM BLUE +, writes (17 January 2009):
Have you tried talking to a female lawyer in your country or some caused oriented group in the Kingdom of Saudi? I believe you should ask help so that justice can be done. You have to seek legal remedies or help to tell what happened to you.
If not then there will be complications such as your husband accusing you of infidelity, when in fact you were raped.
There are uploaded video materials which you can view to understand what you should do next...please click the following link or copy and paste the link below to your browser address above:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4KdrdijT4I&feature=related
We all here are mystified on what happened to you and we hope that justice will be swift. Ultimately, the rapist neigbhor will be beheaded or given 200 lashes in public in accordance to the Saudi law. I hope your husband will understand, but understanding is a rarity when it has been a tradition and culture you have in your country - Men buys the bride, deviod of any romance and love.
In these circumstances, if I were in your shoes either I will go to some agency that will help me in my plight to seek justice or move far away from this neighbor-rapist.
Asalaamu alaykum
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (17 January 2009):
 We in the Western World generally do not understand the intricacies of living in the Muslim World. Although I have some experience, having lived in Libya for a year during the mid-1960s, I only know that women are generally considered as property and not as equal human beings. Wish I could help, but I think that the only possible freedom available to Muslim women is to leave places like Saudi Arabia.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): I am so sorry this happened to you honey!! but keeping things from your future husband is never a good way to start a marriage.It wouldnt be fair to with hold this from him.You need to tell someone you trust. tell them what happened to you, and you will feel so much better!If he truely loves you, he will stay with you no matter what.You need to see a rape councelor too,I know they can help because I am one myself. feel free to email me here!
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reader, butterfly22 +, writes (17 January 2009):
 have you ever called the police? you need to sit down and have a heart to heart with him. tell him the truth about this guy. you keep keep it hidden in the dark and leave him guessing for what is wrong with you.
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