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writes:Hi everyone! Okay I'm not saying that I'm going to have sex or anything I'm just very curious what is it like the first time you have sex? Does it hurt? Does it feel good? Is it amazing or what? I need to know!!:) it would really help me out for the future!!;) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): I am 38 and never had the actual sex act. I was engaged at 21 and we did everything but that. I had to have some medical tests done and they absolutely refused to do it unless my hymen was broken. Fine im 38 and dont want the tearing pain that comes with the wedding night. So I did a very big thing to me, I bought a toy. It hurt, but it didnt kill me. Since then I use it on occasion and I find that it hurts when I stretch myself out down there. I have talked to other women and one woman has three kids and says when her and her s/o go to make love, it hurts for a second and once they get going it's good. I think it is different with every woman and her body type. My doctor said I have a very small pelvis, she almost sounded alarmed rofl. Ive found from some of my female friends that have had sex lives longer than ive been alive, that some women have mild pain at the start of sex, but it goes away right after. Due to size or something im not sure. Anyway I chose to take my own virginity, at least physicaly not just becuase of my poly cystic ovarian syndrom, but becuase I dont want to experience the tearing on my wedding night one day. I have waited this long, spiritualy I am a virgin, physicaly im not becuase I chose to break it myself. I think at a certain age decisions need to be made. I too want to wait till god gives me the right man. To those who are waiting, bravo! no pain no gain right? If im 38 and can wait, so can anyone else. good luck sorry to elaborate so greatly but hey were all good here right?be good. ttfn.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (28 March 2009):
bOy CrAzY;} is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for all your guys help;)
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (28 March 2009):
It really depends. My first time, It didn't hurt but for a few seconds. But every girl is different. But make sure when you decide to lose your virginity, it's with someone you love and really care about or you'll regret it later. And remember to always use protection. :)
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reader, urbanking99  +, writes (27 March 2009):
jessica04 says it all in the first line.
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reader, mama2be +, writes (27 March 2009):
Jessica is very right, some women dont feel pain, like her, some women/girls arent so lucky, like me. my first time was SO PAINFUL! but after he breaks your hymen, a thin layer of skin thats in your vag, it does feel good if you really get into it. it really depends on the women, some women/girls bleed there first time, some dont. i did bleed, its not very much, but it can happen. i think even if you arent ready for sex yet, please note that when you do think you are ready for sex, be ready for a pregnancy. i am not saying you will get pregnant your first time. but i did. and it sucks, and i am 16 and preggerz. Also listen to jessica. use a condom or some form of protection. yes it kills the mood, but i think a screaming baby would kill the mood more then a piece of latex. Just make sure you are with the right guy and you know all the consequences of sex. (pregnancy/std's)
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Well, it's only amazing if you and the person you're doing it with are really special to each other.
My first time didn't hurt at all, but this is not true for every girl/woman.
It might not even feel good the first time, but since you have to have a first time sometime, it's just a risk you'll have to take.
Use protection when you do decide to have sex! No matter what the guy says!
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