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Should I go back to the ex I feel strongly about, or stay with my new boyfriend?

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Question - (11 November 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have a very huge problem. Well my ex-boyfriend is extremely mad at me.

We broke up because of some complications, but we were planning on getting back together when I could date again. Well, over time I had feelings for someone else, and I told my ex that he should go out and date because it's gonna be impossible for us to be together unless we sneak and I don't do things like that.

I recently told him that I have a new boyfriend and that I'm starting to like him a lot, so my ex was furious and sent me a long note saying that he doesn't want to talk ever again and that he still loves me. It was very painful, and I was crying because I still have some feelings for him. I told him that we could still be friends and he said if he can't have me then he doesn't want to be friends either, because we had something special.

Should I go back out with him despite our situation, or should I stay with my boyfriend now? Keep in mind that I like my new boyfriend alot and he is very respectful, but I still have strong feelings for my ex. What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005):

im in same situation my ex wants me back after he broke up with me but i met someone else who is so nice and i like him but miss my ex very much and dont know what to do ...eventually you will know what to do you should never go back in life always go forward x

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A male reader, the_used +, writes (21 November 2005):

well i say that you follow your heart, you might say you don't know what your heart is saying but trust me it will be clear soon and your ex isn't angry he's just feeling sad and sometimes when you are really sad you can't control your emotions and they switch around just not to be sad trust me i'm always going throu the same thing

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A male reader, Lord of Skimmed Cheese +, writes (13 November 2005):

If you love each other and you are convinced he is the one and that he will remain faithful, again, go back to him. On the other hand, your ex is acting very childish, so if you think you can never be together, forget him and move on with your new life with your new boyfriend.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2005):

If you do trust your ex will never cheat and you will never cheat on him don't lie to him let all your secrets out if you guys still lo0ve each othe go back

I was in the same situation a told my ex everything and he still loved me we have been 2gether 4 years since break up and we are still healthy better than ever

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