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writes: Ok so last year there was this guy who really liked me. I would catch him staring when I talked to other guys and about 15 people (some of whom I didn't even know. They knew my name though) told me he liked me. I was asked various questions like "do you like *his name*" and "are you and *his name* going out?". Anyway, he straight out told my best friend he liked me the whole year ad wanted to know if I liked him. She said no and he was crushed. I didn't have any feelings for him whatsoever and I tried very hard not to lead him on. Anyway, schools starting in a week and I'm worried I will see him. Its a big school, but there is still a good chance considering we are on the same academic level. What do I do if I see him? I don't know if it would be rude or not just to ignore the fact that he's there or awkward if I did say hi. What do I do? How do i act? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks!
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reader, Thelaird1 +, writes (26 August 2011):
I agree with the others, but I think he may well have moved on to another girl now. Things change rapidly at school, so do feelings. Just be yourself and act normal. Don't let it worry you or distract you from your schooling
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): I would try being honest with his friends that keep asking you. Let them know that he's not your type and there's nothing he can do about it. It's just not going to happen right now. And if he sticks around and keeps on liking you, he might miss out on someone who likes him. And he's just going to get hurt by the fact that you're going to like someone else too. Act cool like he's just a dude that likes you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 August 2011):
I would not be rude, but I would not be overly friendly either. If he says hi, say hi back. That simple.
No need to be rude or mean, just because he had a crush on you.
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