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Article - (15 June 2007) 2 Comments - (Newest, 25 June 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, tmo9688 writes:

I really dont wanna say ex cause we r tryna fix it for our daughter.. but we been together for 3 years and 7 months we had a baby and then from there r relatioship went down the drain he would never help me with our daughter we wanot working so it was hard to provide and finally he got a job then he started coming home at 1,2 oclock in the morning I would get mad cause he would go out after work instead of coming home and spending time with us then on his days off he didnot even wanna take us out or nothing we were always stuck in the house he would take out his mother and we lived with her. he started pushing me away and when he would hold the baby it would be for like 5 min then he would say his arms hurt and give her back. he wanted me tomove in with him he said he would take care of me and the baby but... when he got a job and was getting money he all of a sudden got money hungry and wouldnot buy me or his daughter anything I had to be for him to get his daughter pampers and stuff. and he would get mad if she went through them to fast. I left my family to be with him when i was 17 and we were living in his mothers house he promised that we wouldnot be living there long and a year later we were still living there cause the money we would save he would spend it on junk. instead of gettign us a place he went put and bought a brand new 2007 mazda 6. and came home and thought I was gonna be happy. he calls me names and I do everythign for him im the most loving person towards him cause

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A female reader, Keykee United States +, writes (25 June 2007):

HELLO...................... LADIES GET A JOB THIS IS 2007 AND WOMEN ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR TAKING CARE OF OUR CHILDREN AS MEN ARE, Then if his sorry ass doesn't straighten ,you can take your money and your child and get a place of your own, on top of that. CHILD SUPPORT , good luck honey , but depending on a man 100 percent is a bad idea

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A female reader, Rebecca091180 United States +, writes (23 June 2007):

I fully understand what you are going through...I am in a similar situation though we live with my mother and we have a son.. He also told me that he would take care of us and he doesn't have a job anymore he got fired from 2 jos in 2 months. I am always worried about if we are going to be able to buy diapers.He always chooses his brother over me and our son.He picked up a drug habit that he has been clean from for 1 year and a half. His brotherand I do not get along...to the point where his brother wants to get a female to kick my ass...He doesnt seem like he sticks up for me when his brother bad mouths me...but I cant say anyhting bad about his brother or there will be A heated discussion between us. His brother keeps sticking his nose in where it doesnt belong and causing all these problems i stated above. I dont know what to do about my situation and i cant give good advice without first giving good counsel to myself. If I come up with a good solution to the problem I will get back with you.

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