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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi there i really need your help me and my boyfriend split up thursday, he keeps running back to his ex girlfriend but he's told me today he really loves me and wants me back and he wont let me move on and meet other lads what do i do????
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reader, elsie +, writes (18 June 2007):
 i know how you feel i was in a similar setup but the only solution after tons of heartache was to say stop or we are finished!and mean it.youve done nothing but splitup and get back together and unless you put an ultimatum now you will carry on like this for god knows how long?better to start afresh and meet someone who wants you and only you.good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007): It does not matter what he has or hasn't done with the other girl, the point is he keeps treating you both like a pair of yo yo toys, and he can't make up his mind....he goes to whom ever isn't making any demands on him is my guess.
He sounds like he is too immature to be in a serious relationship....you need to focus on yourself for now, and learn a new skill or get a new job....start being grateful for what you do have, and grateful that he has done you a favor and left.....If you stand up for what you want and like yourself enough not to let a man walk all over you and take you for granted, you will attract a better quality man in the future....you will get over him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut hes neva done stuf with her like he has done with me this as all been since i had a still born baby boy hes been like this but later on i had another little boy hes 2 now but es also got a baby with er witch happened when went behind my back shes 1 now and we started counclin it went fine intill now and i just dont know how 2 get over him now weve bin together on and of for 4 half years
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007): Move on and meet other lads, this guy is just trying to keep you hooked in, a lot of guys feel posessive even over past loves, it has less to do with their feeling love for you as it has to do with power and control over you, they don't like the idea of another man being where they have been.
He is not ready for a serious relationship, and perhaps neither are you as you are very young....you will meet someone better if you just let go of this one.
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